A little discussed component of female nature is just when they decide to do something. Specifically, sleep with you.
If you make a girl feel enough sexual energy, she will sleep with you. In my experience, women will sleep with a man long before they decide they want a relationship. As a matter of fact, if the man has certain elevated characteristics (Central Traits), but doesn’t fit her life ambitions, she is more likely to sleep with him and NOT want a relationship.
I call this the Fuck Line.
This is the point she wants to sleep with you.
In my graph, we have 4 major Central Traits that influences a girls desire to sleep with you: Attitude, Looks, Money & Fame. All of these add up to your “Perceived Social Value”.
Looks
I have never had the kind of looks that just attract very hot women. A few of my friends have had (and have been) male model looks, and girls did approach them. Of course, with having these desired looks, they also displayed somewhat of an Attitude that portrayed them as a desirable man.
I had one friend that actually was a model for 10 years, and women would just approach him and start talking with “fuck me” eyes.
His looks and minimal attitude got him laid all the time – however it did not keep the girls around. After the initial sex, he usually became a “very” nice guy that became boring with the girls.
Money
I have been a millionaire, and I have friends that own companies and make millions. Having money, nice cars, nice clothes and the other trappings of wealth (fancy motorcycles, boats, Lake House, travel, expensive drinks, meals, etc.) is an easy way to attract women.
My own personal experience is that the money will definitely attract hot women, but if you don’t have an understanding of female nature and sexual triggers, your personality will rapidly lower your status in her eyes regardless of your money.
With enough money you can just buy her. I have known many women that will trade sex for the nice apartment, car and money. These are kept women, and are no different than an escort or prostitutes in my mind.
Fame
The actor, rock star, pop culture figure, author, painter, etc. all have a level of fame. The more fame they have the more girls want them. This triggers preselection in women, and girls will sleep with famous men just for the “expected” elevation in social status. These are the groupies of rock stars, and the popular girls all liking the most popular guy in school.
With this, I have seen very famous and generally liked male rock stars absolutely destroy their “fame” and preselection by what they said, and their overly needy attitude to be the center of attention.
Attitude
In my opinion, attitude is the cheapest, easiest way to inspire a girl to sleep with you. This is the Alpha attitude. This is your masculine, dominance, charm, and belief system.
You can be broke, ugly, and not famous, but if you have the correct mental frame when you interact with her she will be attracted to you. Just this attitude can spark enough desire in her to have her want to sleep with you.
The more of each of these Alpha traits you have, the more desirable you are. But notice, only having one single strength can get you to the fuck line.
Of all these traits, the Attitude is the most desirable for triggering sexual attraction in the female.
If you watch thru media, you will notice a lot of nice, famous, rich & attractive men that cannot keep their wives. Every day we hear of these celebrity men not being able to save their marriage. They still have money, fame and looks… so what perception changed with the female?
Attitude. The nicer these men try to be, the worse their relationships.
In my life, the more I put me and my desires first, the happier the women in my life are.
The Fuck Line Moves
Yep, the fuck line is different for every single female. And can even be different in different social situations.
The fuck line for a single girl traveling with female friends on a cruise is usually lower than the female at a bar surrounded by men and women that all know her. The more opportunity she has to be promiscuous without her peers seeing her as a slut the lower her fuck line.
A girl that also has certain “Easy Tells” will generally have a lower fuck line, while a woman that truly understands the sexual market and her value will likely have a higher fuck line.
Over all though, this graph is generally a great representation for all women. In Western cultures, 99.9% of the women will sleep with you without / before a relationship. They will sleep with someone that made them “feel” sexual attraction, even if this man is a poor life choice or can lower her reputation.
Increasing your Perceived Central Traits
Money Trait
Simple point here – make more money. A better job, own a business, win the lottery, etc. Actually having money is hard to fake – though a few men do it by creating a Ponzi type scheme. They use credit, borrow, or steal from others to have the resources to “Fake” their wealth.
If you are a man with a plan, you can be seen as a man “soon to have money”. This is not as strong a trigger as the man that actually has the money, but the neural surgeon in his last year of residency is going to be seen as having more of the money trigger than a checkout clerk from the local Wal-Mart.
Starting, owning and growing a business can trigger this as well. Dream big and focus on building your wealth and you will start to move up this Central Trait.
I have also learned that having the money (the expensive car, nice house, toys, etc.) is enough to trigger the fuck line. You don’t actually have to spend your money on her or buy her. You can imply that you will, but you don’t actually have too. Most women assume they can use their sexual charms to manipulate a man – so she can justify in her mind sleeping with the rich guy because someday he will “pay her back”.
From experience, the more you are willing to spend on a girl, the weaker you look to her. This is why so many men complain about the gifts, dinners, cars, jewelry and other items they have bought for women – and still not gotten laid.
Looks Trait
Let’s face it; some things are just not practical to change.
Women generally like taller men. I am 5’9. But I am not going to cut my legs and stretch them to get to be 5’11. So be it with most “look” traits.
As with most things, you can elect to have surgery to improve on many perceived look traits – women do it all the time.
However the looks trigger is one of the weakest for men.
The only real exception is your fitness level. For the most part, the more muscular and in shape you are, the better your odds of landing, sleeping with and even keeping a really hot girl.
Very rarely, if ever, will you see a super-hot thin feminine woman dating a fat hunk o’man. If you do see that, you are going to immediately assume he has money – as will most people.
And even then it is very rare.
You don’t have to be built like Arnold –though he did bang the hottest chicks. But you will want to have a generally muscular and lean body.
The clothes don’t even matter as much with the muscular body. I have done just as well with corporate types and models alike wearing jeans, boots and a t-shirt instead of a $2000 suit.
Fame Trait
Which man reading this hasn’t at one time in his life wanted to be great at something?
To be the famous rock star!
Or football player!
Even the race car driver or actor!
The truth is, being famous for positive traits is extremely difficult. It can take years to develop a social and famous nature powerful enough to have this be the primary driver to have women want you.
I have no idea what the statistics are, but a very small % of the population has any real fame.
Now, you can develop local or group fame – basically being seen as a desirable man in the social group you are with. But this doesn’t really trigger the fame trait unless women are hanging on you and a girl outside of the group sees this.
You could also commit some truly evil acts and have your 15 minutes of fame. Plenty or murderous men have had 100,000’s women want to be with them after they commit these evil acts. Of course, they couldn’t act on it, since they were in jail…. Not a path I recommend.
Attitude Trait
The more masculine, charming, & Alpha you are, the easier your life will be. By learning the true nature of women, what actual attitude characteristics trigger attraction and implanting these rules into your subconscious you can blow right by all of the other traits.
I have been out of shape, broke, and without even a local group of friends and my Attitude has gotten me laid more than anything else in my life ever has. Even more than when I was a millionaire and could buy the girls all the expensive gifts they want.
As a matter of fact, my sex ratio of attitude to money is probably around 50-1.
And it is not really hard. Most men will see a change in how women see them in only a few weeks of implementing Alpha attitudes. After just a few months of really learning these triggers most men will experience so much female success, they may lose some of the motivation to be wealthy, successful and in shape. I did for a while.
The Average Man
The average man sits just under where the average girls fuck line is. In my opinion it looks like this:
He is going to have some level of attitude, looks, money and fame (at least local group). He can pick any of the traits to boost him over the Fuck Line.
My advice would be to concentrate on the Central Traits in this order:
1) Attitude
2) Looks
3) Money
4) Fame
Why Attitude Is The Key
If you focus on increasing your Alpha understanding just 20%, the average man will rapidly achieve the fuck line for most women. If the goal is to have a larger pool of hot girls to sleep with, learn the attitude that triggers attraction.
If you have the right attitude, the girl will naturally “see” you as more physically attractive – which does not happen with any of the other traits.
If you have the right attitude, the girl will naturally “feel” you are someone growing into a powerful money base – which does not happen with any of the other traits.
If you have the right attitude, the girl will naturally credit you with fame – at least local and personal group fame – which almost doesn’t happen with any other trait.
If you have money, the girl will naturally feel you are a provider – or a source of good times. Money can influence the “fame” trait, but that is it (from how a girl sees you).
If you have looks that is a plus, but it really is not a boost to attitude, money or fame for a man. You need another trigger for this to really work in your favor.
If you have fame, it is one of the most powerful initial triggers – but it doesn’t directly increase money, looks or attitude without being channeled. It is also the hardest to cultivate and sometimes the shortest lived.
Truly learn the Alpha attitude, and you can pretty much have whatever you want.
In my life, the more Alpha my attitude, the hotter the women I sleep with. Without anything else changing.
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