How Your Reality Reflects On You

How Your Reality Reflects On You

One of the most life changing topics I have ever studied is that of “Frames” and the role they play in creating our mental maps….

LinkedIn Photos Deemed Too Good to Be Real-WTF?

LinkedIn Photos Deemed Too Good to Be Real-WTF?

In a story that is hard to believe, LinkedIn has joined (temporarily) the ranks of the feminist. It seems Toptal, a developer network, ran ads…

No, you don’t understand, I am not attracted to guys

No, you don’t understand, I am not attracted to guys

I was tired. I mean dog tired. My father, a strong Marine turned Army pilot turned Executive had been diagnosed with Stage 4 throat cancer….

What To Do If She Flakes

What To Do If She Flakes

We have all been there. Meet a hot girl, chit chat for a bit, get her number, text a few times, set up a meeting…

Removing the Pedestal Myths and Truths

Removing the Pedestal Myths and Truths

One of my fundamental beliefs as to why the average guy has such a hard time becoming good with women is because he sees women…

Reader Question – Finances

Reader Question – Finances

“I’ve read both of your posts on ROK and especially enjoyed your post about value because it seemed a huge mistake in dating. One insightful…

Older Women Are For Younger Men

Older Women Are For Younger Men

The hardest girl in the world to bag is the 18-23 extremely hot girl. They are also the most fun. Typically they have free spirits,…

What Does Your Price Imply About Your Value?

What Does Your Price Imply About Your Value?

When I first started my engineering consulting business I was hard pressed to land any clients. I had wrongly assumed that price primarily drives the…

Who Has The Power?

Who Has The Power?

“Someone once told me that the power in all relationships lies with whoever cares less. And he was right.” — Connor Mead, Ghost of Girlfriends…

Typical Dating Questions From Guys

Typical Dating Questions From Guys

How can I tell if she is single? Honestly, you can’t. I know of divorced women who still wear the wedding ring, and I know…

Burn Your Ship And Leave No Avenue For Retreat – Sexual Tension

Burn Your Ship And Leave No Avenue For Retreat – Sexual Tension

Have you ever thought of sexual tension and how it impacts your chance for success? Most men feel sexual tension the moment they see an…

The Realities of the 20 Year Old Hot Girl

The Realities of the 20 Year Old Hot Girl

Wake up 8:00 – check text messages • two girl friends text • 5 guys, 3 of which she met last night have text asking…