A reader sends us this question from the How To Impress A Girl article.
Hello Alpha, I have read this: —quote start — Any man new to creating his Alpha self has felt the tension of going up to an attractive woman. I remember going up to several extremely gorgeous women, start talking to them, sense they were waiting for something… to lead them somewhere. And I remember feeling I had no idea what to say, or where to lead the tension in the conversation. So what did I do? I ran. I said something like, “Nice to meet you…” and broke the interaction and let the tension die. —end– and when I read this, I saw myself ‘now’ !!!, I can (and I do) approach woman on the street which I rate them as 10s, but almost always, it is as in the short text above, I eject myself (as I don’t know what to say more). Would you tell me: How did you fix it? What direction should I go? Many thanks, Rafal
Hey Rafal,
It is a very common issue and I compliment you for having the confidence to approach in the first place.
I fixed it using a very large combination of my material. I first reframed my mind to just know I was attractive and interesting. This removes the desire to “Try and impress the girl” and allows for more natural talk.
I then memorized and used lot’s of cocky & funny lines. When these are used teasingly they naturally open conversations. These also allow you to be more of a challenge, which women love.
I also focused a lot of energy learning to build rapport through body language to increase her emotional connection to meeting me.
Lastly, I have a goal in mind. Usually, if I am meeting a new girl I simply open her, tease her, get her teasing back and then I hand her my phone and tell her something like, “I have to go now, put your number in and I will text you sometime.”
And that is it. Not much too it these days. And if you are teasing her and playfully flirting, she will play back and give you all kinds of ammunition to tease her more with.
Stay away from trying to brag or impress her with your car/money/job etc. If you are trying to impress her your energy will feel try hard and she will believe she has more value than you do. When you don’t talk much about yourself at all, and just assume you are the shit, so will she.
As you see in the examples I gave in that article, I am teasing the entire time without qualifying myself at all.
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