| What She Says | What She Means If You are Beta | What She Means If You are Alpha |
|---|---|---|
| Are you listening to me? | My remarks should be making more of an impact. | I am concerned you are losing interest. |
| Are you wearing that? | I want to impress my friends and you need to dress more like I want. | I am afraid my friends will like you “too much”. |
| Can I just blow you? | Even though you are paying me I still don’t want you in me. | I don’t want you to smell/see me |
| Can we cuddle? | We aren’t having sex. | After you take me can I spend the night. |
| Can you help me with my homework? | Will you do my homework? | I want a reason to have sex with you and not look like I am throwing myself at you. |
| Can’t we just be friends? | There is no way in hell I am going to let any part of your body touch any part of mine, again. | Alternate – Can’t we at least be friends = I will be your FWB (friend with benefits). |
| Do I look fat in this dress? | I want you to stroke my ego and prove you aren’t worthy of me. | Please look at my ass, I have been working out for 2 months just to look good for you. |
| Do what you want. | I am going to act mad and pout for no reason. | You can have me however you like. |
| Do you love me? | I’m going to ask for something expensive. | Am I the only girl you are sleeping with? |
| Fine. | You are wrong but not worth the fight. | I want to be with you so much we will do whatever you want. |
| Go ahead (normal eyebrows) | I don’t care what you want, you are barely worth my time and simply justifying why I am sleeping with your friend. | I wish you actually liked me a little more. |
| Go ahead (raised eyebrows) | I believe you are such a pussy I am challenging you to go against my will so I can be justified in the drama I fill your life with. | I am so excited you want to put it in my ass. |
| Hang the picture there | You work for me, and I am the boss. | N/A |
| He was abusive. | After I punched him in the face, he cried and yelled at me. | He pulled my hair, spanked my ass and choked me when I came. |
| How do you know her? | You fucked her didn’t you? I hate her hair. | Of course you fucked her. Did you tell her you loved her? |
| How long was your last relationship? | I find it hard to believe women tolerate you for any length of time. | How many girls are you sleeping with? |
| How much do you love me? | I need you to do some chores for me that I don’t want to do. I will imply my love if you do them but will still keep you in the friend zone. | I am your sex slave. |
| I am a lesbian. | I feel nothing for you. | Let’s go pick up girls together. |
| I am just looking to have fun. | You are really not my type and I while I enjoy the free dinner, you don’t excite me at all. | I know I don’t qualify as “girl friend” material for you but I will still let you do anything you want to my body. |
| I didn’t mean it like that. | That’s exactly how I mean it, and you had better get used to it. | That’s exactly how I mean it, but now you are scaring me. |
| I don’t want to ruin our friendship. | I feel nothing for you | You can cum on my face. |
| I don’t feel like going out. | The Alpha I want hasn’t called or text and I am going to eat a gallon of ice cream and drink a bottle of wine. | I am already naked, come over. |
| I don’t feel like having sex | I am not really attracted to you, and unless I am really horny you are never getting any. | OMG I am too sore to do it again. |
| I don’t know; what do you want to do? | I can’t believe that you have to ask and don’t have a plan! | I am a little scared but you can use me. |
| I don’t really mind where we eat | Are you telling me you can’t make a decision on something so simple? | I have never eaten sushi off of a live, nude woman before. |
| I don’t want anything for my birthday/Christmas. | You had better know exactly what to get me without me telling you. | I just want to be with you. |
| I don’t want to talk about it. | Go away, I’m still building up evidence against you. | I know you are right. |
| I have no plans, but call me tomorrow? | I am hoping something better comes up, but if not, I will allow you to buy me dinner. | I have no plans and will do anything you want but I want to look like I am at least “not easy”. |
| I have nothing left to say. | Once I figure out what I want to say I will talk for hours. | I know if I keep pushing my emotional outburst you are going home with the waitress. |
| I haven’t really thought about it. | I am obsessed with it but don’t want you to know because I am mad. | I am obsessed with it but don’t want you to know because I am horny. |
| I hear what you are saying. | I completely disagree but would rather have you pay for dinner than fight. | I completely disagree but have no facts, data, or logic to make a good counter argument. |
| I heard a noise… | I noticed you were almost asleep. | Is your other girlfriend here? |
| I just do not want a boyfriend now. | I just do not want you as a boyfriend. | If I offer you no-strings attached sex would you at least bang me in the alley behind the bar? |
| I just need some space. | I want to break up and hope you get the hint. | I think you are just using me for sex and this is my test to see if you will even text me. |
| I just want a nice guy that can make me laugh. | I want the Alpha bad boy every girl wants and I want to be the one to tame him. | I will bring my girlfriend over. |
| I like you but… | I don’t like you | I like you and you really make me nervous. |
| I love you | Thank you for the gift, you are such a good friend. | I am flooded and tingly all over. |
| I need to start going to the gym. | It’s time for you to compliment me. | I think I am getting fat and that you will get another girl. |
| I need. | I want you to give me. | I desire. |
| I want you to meet my friends. | I think you are too nice, but I need the herd to make the final decision. If you don’t raise my value enough I am banging your best friend. | I have told my friends all about our sex life and how you treat me. I want them to meet you and be jealous of me. |
| I was just about to call you. | I need something from you. | I have been waiting by the phone hoping it was you. |
| I’ll be ready in a minute. | I AM ready, but I am going to make you wait because I know you will. | I just want to look as hot as possible for you. |
| I’ll just pop in. | I know you aren’t doing anything and will do anything for me. | I want to see how many other girls are there! |
| I’m allergic to gluten. | I need attention and feel like having an eating disorder. | I have an eating disorder to look hotter. |
| I’m always on Facebook. | I get an ego boost out of all the male attention. | Is there any way I can find you on Facebook and stalk you? |
| I’m just going out with the girls | We are gonna get sloppy drunk and hope an Alpha wants to use me. | Want to come? |
| I’m not emotional! And I’m not overreacting! | I know I can get away with any childish outburst and you will put up with me. | Oh shit, you are calling me out and I don’t have a logical reaction. Can I suck your dick? |
| I’m not upset | I am upset and if I blame you enough you will say “Sorry” for it being your fault. | I am upset but can’t yet figure out how to make it your fault. |
| I’m not yelling! | Yes I am yelling because I don’t respect you and don’t think my childish outburst will have any negative consequence. | I am yelling as this is really important to me and I don’t think you care. |
| I’m on my period | No sex for you tonight. | Do you have a dark towel so I don’t leave blood on your sheets? |
| I’m sorry | I’m sorry you found out. | Please don’t leave me. |
| I’m too tired. | I am just not feeling any attraction to you tonight. | I didn’t know you would text at 2 AM and I haven’t shaved in a week. Give me an hour. |
| Is my butt fat? | It’s time to compliment me again. | Is her butt hotter than mine? |
| It’s not you. | Of course it’s you. | I know I can be emotional, please don’t leave. |
| It’s up to you. | You had better read my mind and pick the right answer. | I will do whatever you want. |
| It’s your decision. | The correct decision on what I want should be obvious to you. | I really will do whatever you want. |
| Just 5 more minutes. | I don’t respect you enough to worry about your schedule or time, and therefore I will make you wait. | I really misestimated my schedule, please don’t go yet. |
| Kim’s boyfriend just broke up with her. | I am going out with the girls to have a crazy night and I don’t need you checking up on me. | I should go meet Kim real fast, would you like to go? |
| Maybe | No | I want to but will you think I am a slut. |
| My ex is completely crazy. | I am still screwing him on the side. | I am still screwing him on the side but would stop for you. |
| My parents like you. | You are “safe” and not the worse I could do. | I am going to marry you. |
| No | No | Hell yes. |
| No, pizza’s fine | Cheap bastard | You are so sweet. |
| Nothing happened, really. | I was so drunk, I am not sure what happened but I know it isn’t good. | I was waiting for you to text. |
| Nothing, really. | You are such an idiot, you don’t even understand all of the little ways you grate me. I would tell you but I don’t want to see you cry again. | It’s just that you’re such a loveable asshole and even when I am mad I want you. |
| Oh Yes! Right there! | Well, near there; I just want to get this over with | Perfect. Now cum on my face. |
| Only us girls are going. | I don’t want you around. | I am afraid you will sleep with my friends. |
| Please do… | If you do that I am going to unload the wrath of hell on you. You have been annoying but haven’t really given me a reason to completely go psycho and this may be my chance. | … anything you want to me. |
| Promise you won’t tell anyone? | I have already posted this on Facebook. | I hope this makes you want me more. |
| Seriously, I’m fine and totally over it. | I am looking for the most devastating way of paying you back. I may fuck your best friend. | It’s not what I wanted, but I will have to live with it. |
| Sorry I didn’t call. | I am not sorry at all, I just didn’t want to talk to you. | I was playing hard to get to see if you valued me at all. |
| Sure…go ahead | Please go. It allows me to hold a grudge at you but still gives me a break from you. | You know I don’t want you to go. |
| That guys was hitting on me | I want to see you get jealous and throw a fit. | You are not paying me enough attention and I hoped you would see how desired I am. |
| That’s a long story. | It is a story of me doing things with a guy that I won’t do with you. | That is a story where I seem like a crazy bitch and I am afraid if you hear it you will change your number and move. |
| There’s no one else | I am doing your brother. | You can do my sister. |
| Was I really annoying last night? | I know I was really annoying and I want you to tell me I wasn’t. | How bad did I screw up? |
| We need to talk | I need to complain about something you did that I don’t like. | Are you ever going to spend the night? |
| We need. | I want. | I wish. |
| We should definitely hang out sometime. | I am not really interested and will likely avoid you but if you offer me fancy enough date I may go out with you. | I am DTF whenever you want. |
| We should get a dog… | Any excuse to keep you busy and away from me. | I want to have your baby! |
| We’ll see… | No way in hell… | The thought thrills me but I am a little scared. |
| We’re moving too quickly… | I am not going to sleep with you. | I will do anything you want if you tell me you don’t see it as slutty. |
| What did I ever see in him. | He bought me nice things, and took me nice places, but I just didn’t feel it for him. | He dumped me and I still want him. |
| What was your ex-girlfriend’s name again? | I know I am hotter than she is but I want to prove it. | I am feeling insecure and want to Facebook stalk your ex. |
| Whatever. | You aren’t worth fighting with. | I know I won’t win fighting. |
| Who was at the party? | I am glad I didn’t go with you. | Were any of your old girlfriends or new sluts hitting on you? |
| Why can’t I find a nice guy. | You ARE nice, but it’s that brother – it-would-be-gross-to-kiss-you way. | I want you. |
| Yes | No. | Hell yes. |
| You are an asshole. | I hate how you make me feel. | I hate how hot you make me feel. |
| You are probably right. | I still want you to pay for my trip so I don’t want to fight right now. | I still feel I am right, but I have no facts, data or logic to prove it. |
| You are such an asshole. | You don’t stand a chance. | What you just said took me by surprise and I am starting to get wet. |
| You don’t care | I know if I just throw a big enough fit you will say “Sorry” and take the blame. | You really don’t care? |
| You never listen | You never listen | What? |
| You will make someone a great husband someday. | I don’t want you but you will make some single mom past her prime and looking for a meal ticket for her bastard spawn a great man to snag. | I am going to marry you. |
| You will never guess what happened. | I am about to tell a story with neither rhyme nor logic, that will allow me to ramble and put a few simple life wants into a non-related moment because I love the sound of my voice and you will do anything I want. | I am about to tell a story that will show my wild, sexual side in the hopes you want me. |
| Your just like a brother. | This isn’t Penthouse letters, and you have no chance. | You are hung like a brother. |
| You’re certainly attentive tonight. | Is sex all you ever think about? | I love how much you want sex – with me. |
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Join discussionNice to see you adding more words! Thanks
Who cares what she thinks?
I do. By understanding what she is thinking and how what she says applies to our interaction I have a better understanding of how to get whatever it is I want from the interaction.
Caring about what thinks does not mean you have to react, modify your behavior or feel anything positive or negative – it just means you want to understand wherever she is.